May 9, 2010

The curveball

As I was riding in the back seat of a Calgary Police officer's car last Sunday morning, I encouraged myself to do a bit of self reflection.  First, I thought how life can throw you some strange curveballs and then I thought about how quickly something as simple as your daily plan can change - completely out of your control.  But then I questioned myself; 'How in the world had I got to this exact point in my life journey?  How was a stern policeman stealing quick glances my way in the rearview mirror, my nerves on edge, my husband calmly sitting at our kitchen table eating his breakfast without a clue that a cop car was about to pull up to the house with his wife in the back seat all?  How?  Well, the 'how' of the story all starts out a few months back when I began to take group exercise classes at the Goodlife Fitness Club.  


After BodyStep class one day, I was approached by the instructor who strong recommended that I take the training component so that eventually I would be able to teach it.  I was thrilled and didn't want to miss out on such a fabulous opportunity.  I signed up right away, counting down the days for the session.  I was super pumped and was determined to do my best. 


The first day of training we were told that we would each be given a 'track' from the new BodyStep release.  We had to learn the choreo, start to script our cueing and coaching lines and then present it to everyone else the following day.  I was beyond nervous Saturday night and Sunday morning so I made sure to wake up early Sunday morning (we were told that we wouldn't be let in if we were late), so I grabbed a bite to eat and jumped in my car to get to the NW Westwinds Goodlife fitness location way across the city.  


Driving down Deerfoot, my 'track' music was blasting at full volume out of my speakers.  I'm going over my choreo in my head, and yelling out cues to my imaginary class.  All of a sudden I hear a part of the music that sounds totally off.  I stop yelling and try to listen carefully to the unfamiliar sound.  It's like a weird flapping noise - this isn't right.  I went to turn down the music when I notice smoke coming out of the back end of my SUV.   I new instantly...I have a flat tire... awesome.  I quickly look at the time: 7:20.  I have to be there by 8:00 and it takes a half hour to get to Westwinds from my house.


Being the determined young woman that I am, I immediately thought; 'I can make it, I can make it'.  So I kept driving.  I went for another 15 seconds when all of a sudden I hear a mini explosion coming from the back of the car.  Okay.  The tire just erupted.  My first thought was;  'So how far can you go on the rim of your car?'  Well, that didn't last.  A moment later, I knew I had to pull over because there was smoke coming from the back of the car.  So I pulled over, my plan was to call Nate and he would come pick me up.  Well one of those curveballs that I was talking about earlier was coming right my way.


I pulled out my cell phone and dialed Nate's number.  I'm waiting and waiting for what seemed like hours for him to pick up when all of a sudden I realized there is a ringing cell phone sound coming out of my gym bag that's sitting right beside me!!!   I looked at my cell phone in my hand, and ended the call.  Immediately, I dialed Nate's number again.  I thought I was dreaming.  There's no way I could have both MY cell phone and HIS together...here...in this car in my gym bag.  But alas, again, after calling his number, my gym bag continues to ring.  I dig through the well prepared snacks and extra pair of socks I have in there and sure enough find Nate's cell phone shining and ringing up at me from the bottom of my bag.  NOOOOOO!!!  Okay, okay.  No way to get a hold of my husband because we don't have a land line.  I start to panic.  7:30, all alone on Deerfoot on a Sunday morning.  Fan-effing-tastic.   


What do I do?  Do I run home?  That would take HOURS!  Do I sit there and wait for a random car to drive by?  Possibly some early church goers?  What time does church start anyway?  Is there a church around here?  PANIC!!!!  Okay Kate.  Remain calm.  Then out of the corner of my eye, I see the car.  The only other car on all of Deerfoot.  It was a sign.  I had to get his attention.  I jump out of my car and start running after him - arms flailing and everything.  He pulls over and I run up to his passenger side window.  


Kate: 'Hi!' (out of breath)  'Can you drive me to my BodyStep training?'  


Policeman: (neutral facial expression)


Kate: 'I just got a flat tire and I have to go to a Fitness session at Goodlife Fitness and I'm already running late do you know what time it is my husband's cell phone is in my gym bag which I only just found after turning down the music to my track cause I was practicing the choreography which I have to teach to the rest of the group today...can you take me there?


Policeman: (neutral facial expression) Get in the backseat.  Where do you live?


Kate: ' I just live in McKenzie Towne'


Policeman: (searching computer)  I can take you there.


Kate: 'Oh MY GOSH!!!  THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK You so much (5 minutes later) thank you thank you thank you.  Can I give you a hug?  


Policeman:  That's ok.


And so by this time, it's 8:00 a.m. and I'm back at the house.  I'm dead and I know it.  Nate has no idea what's just gone on.  I figure I'll tell him on the way.  


I made it to training in time to do 30 extra push-ups more than everyone else; but the trainer was understanding enough to allow me back into class.  I ended up passing the course (YAY!) and have since been 'shadowing' with instructors all over Calgary.  Once I submit my video, I'll be assessed by a fitness pro board (so serious) and hopefully have a summer job at Goodlife.  You know what though?  Life IS good regardless of flat tires and unforeseen circumstances.  I'm loving mine and will be ready to laugh at the next curveball cause it all works out in the end.




Apr 8, 2010

Yup - it most definitely got the better of me...


Eating delicious carrot crap on our weekend trip to Banff

It's amazing I havn't had a heart attack yet.

Being married to this man has been one of the most freeing, wonderful, exciting and loving things I have ever experienced - but I ain't gonna lie.  He DOES make me nervous sometimes...






Nate building our garage out back.

MARCH MADNESS


WowThey grow up so quicklyAs the weather begins to get warmer and the days start to get longer, (hallelujah) our little kitty Milo demonstrates that time doesn't stop for anyoneHe's getting bigger and bigger and bigger everydayWith his physical size getting larger and his piggish eating habits get nastier, his confidence also gets stronger.


Milo loves his little Donkey Kong toy nowHe grabs that poor stuffed toy with his two front paws, lays on his back, puts donkey kong's head in his mouth and with his hind legs repeatedly kicks the living daylights out of the tiny donkeyOh well, he's stuffed and inanimate so it's all good.


Work has been out of control busyOur gr. 11 PVA students participated in Kiwanis Music Festival with four different pieces - two of which were student directed scenes and the other two were musical theatre pieces directed and choreographed by yours trulyWe have a really talented and determined assistant principal at our school who fully supported the notion to compete in the festival; however, having only ever done numerous Dance competitions in my lifetime, I had no clue what to expect or aim forOur AP and my other two colleages were extremely gracious in their help and direction and assisted in leading the students to two Gold placements and two Superior placements within their classesI was so proud of them.


Jan 29, 2010

Dislike of Donkey Kong

So, I bought a few little toys for Milo (who really is turning out to be great practice for Nate and I and our future offspring), and he absolutely loves all the balls, mice and fuzzy toys from Petcetera.  However, he absolutely hates this one stuffed toy.


We nicknamed the toy 'Donkey Kong' because he's a tiny little gorilla on the end of a stretchy string, and the toy has a tiny little bell on the end of it; but for some reason, Milo hates him.  He actually runs in the opposite direction when he sees him.  But to Nate and I, Kong is cute -we can't figure it out.  Strange... have a look.

Jan 26, 2010

more Milo!





Trying to stay very still and quiet for the little guy.

my fave men - Milo and Mr.W

Jan 22, 2010

then we went along, got a little kitty and called him:


DR. MILO BUTTS


Dr. Butts is a character from the Shakespearean play King Henry VIII - the drama major in me couldn't resist.  The name Milo comes from a really cool old fat white dude that we met in the Bahamas.  He sold bananas and mangos on the side of the road on the island of Great Guana Cay.  Nate and I agreed that should we ever get a male kitty, we would name him after Milo.  


Our little guy was found on the fabulous website KIJIJI after many days and nights of searching.  We think he's a bit of a mix of ragdoll/ragamuffin and tabby mixed in there.  He's 8 weeks old and just teeny tiny.  I've almost stepped on him a few times and it's funny, he smells like fresh linen, cotton and dust combined.  I have always been a cat lover, in fact my first love Kassy is still alive and well at my parents place.  We didn't take her because she's treated like a princess with an extremely skitish personality and unfortunately, she never did love Nate.  However; secretly I know it would break my Dad's heart if he didn't have Kassy around their house.  


But back to Dr. BUTTS!  How can you resist a face like this one?  I mean - we knew we wanted a little sweetheart, but seriously, I didn't know they come in teddy bear.  He's the cuddliest little animal that I've ever come across.  So far, we've discovered that his likes include:  Burts Bees Lipbalm off of my lips, water from the bottom of granola cereal bowl and long naps on Nate's warm cozy lap.  His dislikes include: the air vents in the floor - he's scared of the air that comes out of them and being left alone for longer than three minutes.   

Jan 20, 2010

The Wonderful Wandlers


Saturday night fun with the Wandzies




One of the things that I miss most about my job at James Fowler High School is working with one of my best buddies - Alli Wandler nee Field.    


Alli (a.k.a Magic Wandz, we gave each other nicknames) is an amazing woman for so many reasons.   However, I'm especially excited to write about her in this post because she is due any day now!!! I couldn't be happier for her and her husband Dave because I know how badly they wanted to start a familyI also happen to know that they are going to have the most beautiful children in the world, but more importantly, there is no doubt in my mind that they will raise their gorgeous offspring to be the best behaved, respectful, loving and caring kids around - because Alli and Dave both areWe love you guys and can't wait to help you welcome pea pod into the world. 

Beautiful Allison and Pea Pod.  Month nine!!!


Jan 10, 2010


Chillaxin' in Mazatlan


What is it about a tropical vacation that gently leads a couple into the affections of falling in love all over again?  Is it the warmth in a sunset, or possibly the work free days that give way to deep conversation over dinner?  Possibly it's a little extra vino that nudges a bashful wife into saying a few words that don't always find their way out of her mouth in cold cowtown Calgary - 'Let's leave...now'.  I don't know exactly what that key ingredient is but I do know that Nate and I got a little taste of it for the week that we were vacationing away.


It seems that we can't stray too far from the ocean for too long.  We're both huge fans of warm weather, soft sand and sea salt spray - a wonderful trio; but when you add an all inclusive hotel set on the end of a beach, endless supplies of gourmet food and refreshments of any sort, it's heaven.  


One of the first highlights of the trip was at the airport.  Nate and I had checked our bags and were waiting in the line to be body scanned when this clerk came running up to us with two large white tickets.  He walks right up to us, hands us the tickets and says: 'I upgraded you both' and walks away.  Nothing else, no reasoning, no justification for doing it - just that.  We looked at each other in shock and just started laughing.  We'll take that!  


The next surprise came when arrived at the hotel.  Back in November when we booked our tickets, we were given the option to either go with a room with a 'garden' view or upgrade it to an ocean view for however much more money.   Nate and I agreed that a garden view would be just as nice and we could spend that 'ocean view' money on something else.  However, as we stepped into the room, both of our eyes were immediately struck by one of the most gorgeous views of the ocean I had ever seen.  We had been upgraded yet again with no reasoning behind it, no justification for the hotel upgrading us, but just doing it.  Saweet.


Another wonderful part of the trip was connecting with fellow Calgarians and making new friends.  There were three or four other couples about our age who we would see from time to time walking around the resort.  In the evenings, we would run into each other and we talked and laughed and began to develop new relationships.  We even discovered that I went to elementary school with one of the other wives!!!  Talk about a small world.  


On the last day, we were incredibly sad to be leaving such a gorgeous and relaxing place, but we agreed that we would return to the hot and humid Mexico mucho pronto.  







New Years Eve

One of the pools at night - view from our room
Gorgeous sunset


Trying to copy the Eiffel Tower picture.

Mexico '09





Jan 6, 2010

Christmas Shenanigans

Kassy (my kitty) is obsessed with the plastic ribbon on top of gifts and will eat it until she's sick





Paul was really really into it.

So in love.  Dad bought her a gorgeous gold necklace and she was so happy she laughed until she cried.